gay
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In porn, I saw sex as a site of pleasure.
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It is easy for society to dissect and understand a same – sex relationship when one of them is dominant and the other, submissive. And barring a clear divide (that being a heterosexual relationship), they have to seek other apertures from which to “box” these two male individuals. And while sex is deemed to be…
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I often think to myself, “ gay people want acceptance from the straight community way too much. Who gives a shit if they never accept us? I sure as hell don’t.” And while this is good for my self-confidence, it might not be so good for lived reality. Unfortunately, people’s lives are often in danger because of homophobic and queerantagonist words…
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There’s this phrase I hear from time to time. It goes, “everyone is a little bisexual.” I’m not going to argue its validity or anything, but it does get me thinking. Namely, that sexual orientation isn’t as black-and-white as “who you sleep with”. See, I believe that romantic relationships have two main components: the sexual…
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My social anxiety, I think, was born out of a need to be loved; to be accepted. And indeed I was accepted, but only under certain conditions. First, as the fat one. Then, as the stuttering one. Followed by smart, the the snooty intellectual. Whenever I tried to show that I was more than just…
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